Well I guess I can blog now. I haven't seen this blog in years. Lots has happened since 2009 Some good some bad. I still go to Cafe but now I belong to a a small group. I was gong to Connecting group for about two years but I wasn't connecting with anyone especially the guys. I was invited to join a women's small group. I love these girls now but the first few months I was at small group I was distracted when I heard the guys in the hall. I wanted to getup and see them but small group wasn't over yet. Over time I learned to block out the guys and focus on the study and develop bonds with the girls in group. I have exciting news to report. After four long years of waiting Caleb finally got a job and is gonna pay for his half of our divorce! Soon we'll go to court to dissolve our marriage. Then I'll finally be legally Heathef Young. Once the divorce is final I'm not gonna go out there and date a new guy. I'm gonna be very cautious about the types of guys I date. Especially after Caleb!